No performance. No gatekeeping. Trigger-wrap hard stuff. Meet each other where it hurts.
The five rules
- Bring your truth, not your trauma porn. Share what's real. Don't perform your pain for likes. Specificity over theatrics.
- Trigger-wrap the heavy stuff. If your post mentions suicide, self-harm, eating disorders, sexual violence, or other activating topics, put
[TW: topic] at the top and a spoiler below. - No gatekeeping pain. 'You don't have it bad enough' is banned. All suffering is valid here.
- No advice without consent. Ask before offering solutions. Most people need witnessing, not fixing.
- Protect each other. If someone is in acute crisis, tag a moderator and share the 988 line. Don't be a bystander.
We remove
- Content that glorifies or provides methods for suicide or self-harm.
- Harassment, slurs, or targeted attacks based on identity.
- Sexual content involving minors, in any form, without exception.
- Spam, scams, and undisclosed promotional content.
- Doxxing or sharing others' private information.
Moderation
Our moderators are trained peer supporters. Decisions can be appealed by emailing [email protected].
